Life, as you know, has been non-stop and each day is packed. Finding time to sit and write has to be intentional, and so here it is - my intentional set aside writing time.
Last I wrote, Ron was at Encompass. A short time after writing the last update, Ron began to go downhill again. As I visited Ron I saw the confusion behind his eyes. I could see his eyes searching for what was truth and reality. I witnessed the short term memory loss returning and I insisted to the doctors that this is not Ron - this is not his baseline and things were still not right.
They sent him for a CT of the brain, which showed the inflammation was intensifying again.
A dear friend who did not know what was happening in real time, but was obedient to the Holy Spirit, reached out to me that evening and shared scripture that has always been so familiar, but it struck me in such a new and inspiring way, “His mercies are new every morning”. I sobbed as I read it and trusted God that this would be our turning point.
The next morning, Feb. 5th, I arrived at Encompass early with my Dad as they arranged for an ambulance to transport him back to the hospital…again. Ron knew with my early arrival that something wasn’t right, but couldn’t remember any of the previous day or our conversations. I felt the pain of loss more in that moment than I had throughout this entire journey, but what I also felt were the prayers of so many carrying us through. Thank you.
I sat with Ron for hours in the ER, while he had no memory of anything happening throughout the day. They ran all the tests and then felt certain that an adjustment of the new VP Shunt would do the trick. I watched as they took out a 007 looking silver suitcase, placed a 4 pronged device to the incision in his head, applied some sono gel, pushed some buttons on the computer device inside the suitcase and then said, “OK - that’s it”, packed it up and walked out.
Another dear friend who also had a VP Shunt some years ago has been my lifeline in all of this. She informed me that there may be a few adjustments before they get the setting just right. In addition, she has been my education on what to expect - something the doctors haven’t done.
Ron was admitted, and in the days that followed my man began to come back to me in many ways! I am happy to share that the catheter is out, and his bladder is working on its own. There was a time that they said the bladder may be permanently paralyzed.
Ron is clear headed, thoughtful, remembering everything, and regaining some movement in his legs. He is determined to be better than before and working harder than ever!
On Feb. 11th, they transported Ron back to Encompass in Stuart. He was welcomed back for a third time like a celebrity! Those who have worked with him the first two times were excited for his return and all of those have said they have never seen him look this good! It’s true, he is so much better this time around! Third times a charm! 🙂 With God, “ALL things are possible!” and we truly believe that Ron is making his comeback!!
Please keep praying - the enemy doesn’t like this one bit, but one thing I can tell you for sure, no matter how hard he comes for us, we will never relent. We might fall down, but we will ALWAYS get back up!
Our God is our healer, He is faithful, just, kind, loving and He fights for us!